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As Women, We Can Do Everything Through Christ

“For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.”

Philippians 4:13 (NLT)

As women, we sometimes (or often?) think we aren’t capable of doing everything. Why? Because in most cultures, that is the common belief. We have been told so from our childhood onwards. We often see images confirming the same in the media. By and by, we have come to believe it ourselves—we think we can’t do everything because of being a woman.

We are, however, not just women. We are daughters of the King!

What does our Heavenly Father say about it? Does He think we can’t do everything because of being a woman? Did He create men more capable than women?

Let’s explore what God says we can do as women.

God created men and women in His image

From the beginning, God created both men and women in His image—His perfect image. There is no doubt about this—both genders are made according to the same image of God. Our worth as human beings doesn’t come from ourselves, but from the one whose image we bear. It’s important to keep this in mind when looking at our self-worth as women.

Indeed, God created a man first, and a woman out of that man. This doesn’t mean, however, that men are more valuable than women. Let’s say you gave birth to a daughter first and then got a son. Does that make your daughter more valuable than your son? No, it doesn’t.

And a fun fact in Genesis: men need help too! How do I know? Because God created a woman as Adam’s helpmate (Genesis 2:18). A woman was created as a helper. If Adam didn’t need any help, God wouldn’t have called Eve a helper.

God sees us, men and women, as equal. We are both His children and He made both of us perfect—in His image. As women, let us not look down on ourselves, but always remember the value we have in God. We may need to do some work to help ourselves believe in our value. We need a mindset change.

A mindset change

We need to change our mindsets from what we think and what the world prescribes to what God says about us and our abilities. How do we do that? It starts with the Word of God. It is in His Word that we can see who we really are and what we are able to do.

“So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”

Romans 10:17 (NJKV)

In order to believe what God says about us, we first need to know what He says. The primary way to do that is by reading His Word. God’s Word is alive and powerful, it will transform our mindsets. That’s precisely what we need to have confidence in our abilities as women.

“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”

Romans 12:2 (NLT)

Our Heavenly Father doesn’t want us to think about ourselves based on the behavior and customs of the world. He desires we’d see ourselves as we are: new in Christ. He gave His Son for us! Now we can live in Him—”In him we live and move and have our being.”

Acts 17:28 (ESV)

When we ground our identity in Christ, our mindsets will change and thus the way we see ourselves will change. To have faith in our potential as women, we must embrace this mindset shift.

God’s Word says much about us as women. Reference is often made to the verses that describe how we should behave, both in the Old Testament and in the New Testament. All those Scriptures are good, but they aren’t the focus of this article. We are focusing on our strength in Christ.

We can do everything through Christ who gives us strength

I must admit, Philippians 4 verse 13 is my favorite Bible verse! I apply it daily.

Let’s dive into what this verse means for us as women.

“For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.”

Philippians 4:13 (NLT)

  • Does this verse apply to us? The verse states, “I can.” It didn’t say, “Men can.” So yes! It applies to women as well.
  • Can we do some things? The verse says, “Everything.” Meaning, there is no limit to what we can do as women.
  • In what way can we do it? Philippians 4:13 gives only one limitation—it is through Christ that we can do everything.
  • How can we do it? The verse ends by showing how we can do all the things—because Christ gives us the strength to do it.

Don’t let worldly influences or thoughts of others limit you in what you (think you) can do as a woman. Don’t even let your own mind determine. Let God decide on your capabilities!

The strength Christ gives us helps us do things we thought were beyond our abilities. This refers to the type of things, but also to doing multiple tasks simultaneously, or doing things under stress. Just to mention a few examples.

As women, we are multi-taskers: keeping the house in order, caring for our kids (if any), running a business, working from home, job at the office, etcetera. We are in charge of seemingly everything! But don’t let this overwhelm you. God knows you can do it…through Him.

If you feel like you are drowning in all your tasks and responsibilities, remember Philippians 4 verse 13 and receive the strength you need to go on. Tell yourself that you can do it. Ask the Lord for more strength. Confess the truth of Philippians 4:13 over your life and see the manifestation of God’s Word working in your life.

Steps to believe in your abilities as a woman:

Here are 13 steps to help yourself remember that you can do whatever you need to do:

  1. Start by recognizing that God created both men and women as equals and sees us as His children. Remember that we are made in His image and have inherent value.
  2. Understand that in order to believe in our abilities, we need to change our mindset from what the world says to what God says about us. This begins by immersing ourselves in His Word and allowing it to transform our thinking.
  3. Read and meditate on scriptures that speak to our identity in Christ and our potential as women. Focus on verses that emphasize our strength and capabilities rather than just our behavior.
  4. Embrace the truth of Philippians 4:13, which declares that we can do everything through Christ who gives us strength. Recognize that there are no limits to what we can achieve when we rely on His power.
  5. Let go of the limitations imposed by worldly influences, other people’s opinions, and even our own self-doubt. Trust in God’s assessment of our capabilities and allow Him to determine what we can accomplish.
  6. Remember that the strength Christ gives us is not limited to specific tasks or circumstances. Whether it’s managing multiple responsibilities, handling stress, or tackling new challenges, rely on His strength to empower you.
  7. When feeling overwhelmed by tasks and responsibilities, remind yourself of Philippians 4:13 and declare that you can do it through Christ’s strength. Seek His help and ask for more strength when needed.
  8. Declare the truth of Philippians 4:13 over your life regularly. Speak it out loud and believe that God’s Word is actively working in your life to manifest His strength and enable you to accomplish all that He has called you to do.
  9. Step out in faith and act based on God’s Word.
  10. Journal your insights from reading and applying the truth of God’s Word. Regularly go back to your journal to track your progress.
  11. Surround yourself with a community of believers who support and encourage you to embrace your abilities as a woman. Seek mentors or role models who can inspire and motivate you on your journey.
  12. Practice self-care and prioritize your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Take time to rest, recharge, and seek God’s guidance in all aspects of your life.
  13. Continually remind yourself of your worth and value in God’s eyes. Embrace the truth that you are fearfully and wonderfully made, and that God has a unique purpose and plan for your life.

Take-away

As women, our capabilities extend far beyond societal expectations or personal doubts. We are not limited by our gender, but rather empowered by our identity as daughters of the King.

Through a transformation of mindset rooted in the Word of God, we can recognize and embrace the strength given to us through Christ. Philippians 4:13 serves as a beacon of assurance, reminding us that there are no bounds to what we can achieve when we place our trust in Him.

By relinquishing worldly constraints and embracing God’s truth, we can navigate the complexities of life with confidence and resilience.

Continuously reaffirm your worth and potential, knowing that you are fearfully and wonderfully made for a purpose greater than yourselves. Through Him, you can do everything He has called you to do.

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